What would you do if your loved or trusted ones hurt you?
A simple lie, a simple word, a simple act, a simple misunderstanding,
a simple inunderstanding, a simple neglection, a simple miscommunication.
However 'simple' all of these may be, you are hurt.
Do you confront the person and express your agony?
Do you hold grudges and await for the time when you can finally take revenge?
Do you act like nothing had happened, and proceed with life as normal?
Do you end whatever contact with the person to never be reminded of the grieves?
Do you forgive and forget, taking into account that it was only a simple thing and because you still love/trust the person?
Do you publicly tell off what the person had done to you [sometimes with the risk of maybe hurting yourself even further]?
Do you inflict guilt upon yourself, believing it was all your fault?
What would you do?
2 comments:
"Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation." ,,, despite this fact we still entitled as human being where no one or anybody could avoid such incidents , where some one trusted hurts him ,,, because In present times when the values in the society are in their lowest ebb we need to exercise special power of discrimination (practicing forgiveness) quite often. We have no other remedy if we are to rise to a higher bracket in life ,therefore Practicing forgiveness gives you an edge over your contemporary... it helps maintain the sanity of a person. Forgiveness reduces the element of hate which follows whenever wanton desires get practiced ,so i would open new page and try to give chance for him/her since i am part of it ...definitely with little caution in the future .
Stay hungry ... Stay foolish
Intention is very important. It depends on what's the first intention that the person do before they hurt me. If his intention is not to hurt me, I will forgive and forget. but if his intention is to hurt me, ok fine. ..
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